The club directory
New Zealand's lifestyle venues, island by island — a lounge-bar icon, a venue-for-hire, members-only clubs and the South Island regulars. Plus the cities where the scene lives online. Find the right room for your night.
New Zealand has a small, concentrated scene: only a handful of physical clubs across the whole country, plus one venue-for-hire, with the community aggregated mostly online. The majority of venues sit in the North Island (Auckland and Wellington), with two more in the South. Here's the lay of the land — and where to read the full local scene.
North Island — Auckland
The national hub by a wide margin: the most members, the most venues, and the only wine-bar-plus-playroom format in the country.
| Venue | Type | Area | Notes |
|---|---|---|---|
| CCK | Lounge bar + play rooms | CBD (Hobson Street) | NZ's best-known club. Stylish licensed bar downstairs, play areas upstairs. Couples $70–$85, single women $20–$30. First-timer friendly. |
| The Chilli Club | Venue for hire | New Lynn | 200sqm licensed space, 15 years running. Doesn't host its own events — hired by organisers for swinger, kink and BDSM nights. |
| The Millennials Club | Events / group | Auckland (various) | Age-targeted (18–35) events for couples and single women, often Sunday afternoons. |
North Island — Wellington
Smaller and intensely curated — a members-and-vetting scene with a stronger kink crossover.
| Venue | Type | Area | Notes |
|---|---|---|---|
| House of K | Sex / kink club | Whitby, Porirua | "Wellington's leading adult playground." Membership + vetting, age 21–50, themed nights. Glamorous and theatrical. |
| Wellington Club Silverado | Members club | Upper Hutt | Regular events for swingers and singles. Friendlier, more social entry point. Single men on specific nights. |
See the full Wellington scene →
South Island — Otago
Dunedin punches above its weight: the most active scene in the South Island, with two venues against Christchurch's none.
| Venue | Type | Area | Notes |
|---|---|---|---|
| Club Risque | Swingers club | Dunedin Central (Liverpool St) | Runs every second Saturday, 9pm till late. Central, friendly, regular crowd. Couples and single women; single men by arrangement. |
| Tawse Manor | Club / house party | Dunedin | Relocated from Christchurch. Intimate house-party hybrid in a private venue. Less frequent — check the calendar. |
Cities where the scene lives online
Some of New Zealand's largest communities have no fixed venue at all — the scene runs through the national directory, private groups and house parties instead.
| City | Scene | Notes |
|---|---|---|
| Hamilton | Online + house parties | The largest non-metro community in NZ. No club — locals socialise online and drive to Auckland for club nights. Full guide → |
| Christchurch | Online + house parties | Third-largest city, but no dedicated club since Tawse Manor moved south. Active online, private events fill the gap. Full guide → |
| Queenstown | Online | A small, tourist-driven resort town with members online but no physical venue. Guide coming soon. |
Venues open, close and change their policies often. Treat this as a starting map, not a live timetable — always check current details before you go.
Before you walk in
New to all this? Read your first time at a club and the etiquette & consent guide first. Want to know where the law stands? See is swinging legal in New Zealand?
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